Respect isn't something I think about very much, at least in that word. But if you make me think about it, I guess I want it. I tend to operate more in the realm of hoping people will LIKE me. Embarassing a little to admit but the truth emerges about my priorities here in this banal blog. Smiley face.
I certainly respect others and even attempt to respect ALL others, including the ones who don't seem to deserve it. That's challenging sometimes but given a moment, I do my best to consider what brought them to this moment; what did they endure? what were they modeled? Maybe I don't always get to respect but I try for compassion at least.
What other kind of respect is there? Respecting privacy. Respecting the earth. Respecting others' rights (usually to do something you don't agree with). Paying your respects...interesting terminology now that I consider it. Disrespect.
The whole thing doesn't have the emotional charge for me that it seems to have for many. I might suggest that those worried so much about being respected are operating from a fear of being "less than". You can't effectively demand respect.
Respect seems to be a more important concept here in The South over anyplace else I've ever lived. You know, the whole "yes ma'am" thing and all. And it's so true, that last statement of yours. I've seen people try... it usually doesn't work!
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